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OldNorth
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Posts: 1
(11/14/03 3:20 am)
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Hey Players,

Way I see it, I'm a player. Outgoing, in shape, an paid, an real confident in myself. Got alot of girls
intrested in me, askin me out an such. But I'm real picky. I've got a busy life, between school an
work, an I don't have much time for b.s. unless I think its gonna turn into somethin worth-while, you
know? I don't get the most girls of my friends, but I sure as hell get the best ones, because I hold
out. Tall, blond, blue-eyes, an severe hourglass are strictly my type.

Over the past last couple years I've had three good relationships. They were serious an all, but I
ended up stopping them before they really got going. I made out with them, kissin an such, an even
b.j.'s. But I always stop there, because I got a big problem. An really, I'm not sure you guys can
help me out. It's real F-ed up. See, while my body's in shape an all (six-pack an what not) I got
these bad scars covering my body (back, legs, forearms). It happened a couple years back when I
dumped my bike real bad, (goin at least 60) and thereby got road-rash. It all healed upquick enough
but left me with some serious scars.

An scars are a perticularily bad affliction. Fellas missing an arm or even blind, might be better off,
because girls seem to react real bad to scaring. Like it's some kind of skin infection, like it's catchy
or something.

So, while I'm a player on the outside, (or atleast, so it appears). I can't take all my clothes off and
"close the deal", ya know? If it's a BJ or something, then I can just whip it out, an everything's cool,
but I can't actually strip in front of them. They know me, an like me, an think I'm all confident, an
good looking, but then they see that my skin is all messed up bad.

It's like being a player for no good reason. So many other guys can't seem to get the girls intersted
in them, or get them back to their place. I can do all that no sweat, but it's all to no avail. Because
what the hell's the point if you can get them, but can't actually "get them"?

Thought about tatoos, but the work would have to be pretty extensive. A full back-peice, plus
sleaves, and it'd all have to be black-work to cover everything up totally. So I guess I'm writing just
to express my frustrattion, an to see if any other players might have similar issues, or have some
ideas to give me.

I could F them in the dark. But even low-lighting is no good, it'd have to be totally balck, as it's real
noticable. Plus then, I can't enjoy it as much, cause I can't see the girls' fine bodies. Also there
could be a problem (with both tatoos and the dark) in that they'll still be able to feel some of the
nasty 'bumps'.

It's no way to live, not being able to be a player anymore. You know what I mean?
Needless to say, it's a real tough spot.

Thanks for any advice,
Old North

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Dracksar
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Posts: 120
(11/14/03 9:52 am)
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Well, I don't really know what to tell you, I dont have any big scars... but if its serious, just tell them in conversation, that you were in a big spill, that you got hurt really bad, and that your legs and back are really @#%$ up. If they dont like you because of such a minute and shallow setback, they arent worth your time.
Your dick aint scarred, so what do you have to worry about?

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INTERLUDE00
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Posts: 6
(11/15/03 2:50 pm)
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you know... you could use it as an advantage..

your assuming most girls will think its a skin rash or what have you

but just use it to your advantage by explaining what happened to you or that your into really extreme things/sports
and had a bad spill

sympathy milks girls right out of their panties. most will probably try and make you feel "good"/better...

plus, if your as good looking and confident as you say you are.. and then all of a sudden, becomes self conscious when your clothes must come of.. females will notice that right away.. and it might be the change in you.. that makes them seem different, or put off.

i understand also... that youll have some encounters with some pretty rude and cold chicks... youll be able to tell as the night goes on from your experience as a player,

but ones with a little more heart wont mind your scars if you take the time to explain what they are.