Secrets of the Sexperts
The pros show you how to improve your sex life

               
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Chiara, the dominatrix
Give her a different perspective on the action -- men aren't the only ones aroused visually. Chiara uses a strategically placed mirror. Try putting a full-length mirror at the foot of the bed.

Shannon, the ex-stripper
Use anticipation as an aphrodisiac. Instead of tearing her clothes off, take your time. Tell her what you want to do with each section of exposed skin. Every moment you linger will come back to you tenfold.

Laura, the vibrator saleswoman
Have a "sexual night out," in which you dress to impress each other (getting ready in separate rooms for surprise). Ban any mundane conversation -- no job griping, no money woes, no child-care complaints. For inspiration on other ways you might hold her attention, check out Toys in Babeland, at babeland.com.

Tech Chick, the porn Webmistress
Rhythm is the key, says the author of Sex Bytes. No dance skills required -- just stay steady and increase speed slowly, for a long buildup. Then: Don't do a thing! Changing pace once you've found a sweet spot kills her mood.